You Can’t Be Turned On By Someone You Believe You Need to Coddle
Withholding your desires from your romantic partner is one of the greatest disservices you can do to your relationship. It’s easy to self-convince that holding back our desires preserves the stability of the relationship, but in actuality it’s the ultimate intimacy and libido killer.
Consider This Perspective:
If you withhold your desire from your partner, on some level you don’t believe they can handle it. If withhold the opportunity for your partner to receive and handle your desire, then you’re coddling them.
Now Consider the Following Question:
Can I be fully sexually satisfied by someone I believe I need to coddle?