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A practice I’ve really been enjoying (and by “enjoying”, I mean melting in the alchemical fire of transformation) is how to be intentional in the way I share erotic energy with people.

What I mean by this, is how to open up into pleasurable erotic space with a person, honoring and loving each person for the gorgeous human they are, without creating stories about what the connection “means” that distorts the authentic truth of the relationship.

What do I mean by this in a nutshell?

The question of:

How do we deepen into erotic intimacy with a person, without projecting…

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I wish for you
The understanding that
Placing pressure
Upon yourself
To discover your destiny
Is the surest way
To push it away

To force, coerce, agendize
Your purpose
Is the surest way
To have it elude you

The world is
Falling apart
And simultaneously
Birthing anew
Like fresh plant life
Emerging from dried lava

What if
Just what if
You are not meant
To know?

What if
Just what if
The surest way
To discover
Your purpose
Is to let go
The pursuit of it
And instead
Allow the universe
To have its way with you

There is no…

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A social media meme popped into my newsfeed a few days ago that said “love like you’ve never been hurt.”

Meow.

I felt that one.

A simple statement you could read many times, and yet because of the unique chemistry of circumstance and synchronicity in my life and intimate relationships, that statement plucked a string in the heart chord of my emotional anatomy, and I paused.

I absorbed the energy of the words into my body as a felt-sense inquiry into the places I’ve been practicing love in my life and relationships from a place of self-defense, or an avoidance…

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Sacred Snake by Cocorrina

As women, the magnetics of our womb organically open, deepen, and expand in our erotic experiences. Our energy floods out, seeking to re-commune with the infinite nature of the Divine. The key for us, is to learn:

1) how to work with our own Masculine energy to ground, integrate, and container ourselves after our erotic experiences.

2) how to discern and communicate our needs and desires to our partners as we open up into deeper levels of expanse melting into the quantum field of erotic potential.

Our wombs are designed to catalyze a charging of our energetic and etheric bodies…

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Your heart is where you need to be, in order to access the freedom you seek.

Sister, you cannot manipulate your way into sovereignty.

You cannot control your way into safety.

You are not a victim of your circumstances.

You are a divine creatrix of your reality.

Your anger at the patriarchy, your resentment and distrust of men…

…is a GMO candy that is sure to give your soul a cavity.

Stop with your hidden agendas, and your calculated pleasantries.

Yes, there is power in your sexuality, but power can cause damage without integrity.

There is a way to be…

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I’ve been having this experience lately, where I’ll feel up in my head, insecure, in self-doubt about something I’m creating, or just not trusting the flow of life.

I’ll start to explore where the feelings and thoughts are coming from. Digging deeper into why they are there. Wondering if they have any merit, and if they’re something I should give more attention to.

And then I realize, wow, it’s been a while since I’ve been well f*cked. It’s been a while since I’ve been made love to, been touched erotically and sensuously by another.

And I realize, nothing is wrong…

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I’d like to jam a bit on spiritual energy and erotic energy, and how we can allow more of those energies to flow into our lives in delicious and effortless ways.

I’d also love to jelly on shame, the contractive state it creates in the body and how we can embrace paradox as a way to move out of binaries of “right” and “wrong”, “good” and “evil”, so we can embrace a more expansive state of beingin our body, and receive more of what we truly desire in our life.

Ya know, just things I think about before I got…

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What is present for me this morning is how much courage it takes for us to open our hearts, and how soft and tender that form of courage (and power) is.

I feel that much of what many of us struggle with in our relationship to power is that we’ve been taught to believe that power and vulnerability cannot simultaneously exist…

…That to be powerful is to be hardened, and impenetrable to anything that could have us appear weak, or at risk of being seen as insecure or imperfect.

This is not true.

I am constantly in a learning process…

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I’ve been having this experience lately, where I’ll feel up in my head, insecure, in self-doubt about something I’m creating, or just not trusting the flow of life.

I’ll start to explore where the feelings and thoughts are coming from. Digging deeper into why they are there. Wondering if they have any merit, and if they’re something I should give more attention to.

And then I realize, wow, it’s been a while since I’ve been well f*cked. It’s been a while since I’ve been made love to, been touched erotically and sensuously by another.

And I realize, nothing is wrong…

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If we resist something that exists within us (i.e. a desire, truth, emotion, feeling, etc), we cannot be in relationship with it, and if we cannot be in relationship with it, we cannot influence it or change it.

While it may seem counter intuitive, having love and approval for that which has plagued us with shame or self-judgement, is an unavoidable step in coming into energetic alignment with that which we authentically desire.

Resistance creates a state of contraction in the body. Whatever we contract around stays in our body and energetic field, which also invariably causes significantly more pain…

Arielle Brown

Spiritual Mentor & Sexual Embodiment Facilitator | www.ariellebrown.com

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